Love is a mutual respect, truth and honesty with realistic expectations, even if it means confessing of unruly desires prior to losing control to them all together. I'm not afraid of love, I'm not afraid of falling hard so fast if it means in the end I will always be happy with who I am. It took forever to realize what love truly meant and where it could take me...with no regrets. Then again love is ever learning, ever growing, and ever becoming within ourselves, we are never truly done with the lessons it teaches. Wholly, purely and truly caring about the well being and happiness of another human being equally as much, not more than yourself. There is a place where loving someone more than yourself can prove to be unhealthy but not when you take care of and be true to yourself first..will you ever be ready to equally care for someone you want to be around or watch grow old together ? I can't stop thinking how I didn't want to be in love anymore let alone with a man t...